Chris Beddoe, director of Ecpat UK, the children's rights organisation that campaigns against child sex tourism, believes: "If both adult partners are open and honest about what they're getting out of it, that's one thing.
That mantra, where payment up front is no guarantee of sex for clients, is legal in all states where the Cowboys 4 Angels services are available - prostitution, by contract, is defined as a guarantee of sex for money and therefore illegal.
But Adria does admit his job can have its difficult side having to constantly please and perform well can be a little stressful at times.Female tourism boomed after Terry McMillan's hit novel, How Stella Got Her Groove Back was made into a Hollywood film.Forget Shirley Valentine, these women - who range from grandmothers to teens - don't want a long-term relationship.Yet if I went and picked up women at clubs every night it wouldnt.It's different for women."There's a poetic lyricism to the gigolo's chat-up lines agrees Gupta."I definitely don't want somebody telling me what I should be doing with my money, or my time, or anything like that said Heather Smith."I think a moral thing is just something that's right or wrong he said.If you have low self-esteem, if you've not had much luck, if you're older.But it's another thing to continue the fantasy when there's a denial of the power that money brings to that relationship that creates a culture of dependency and exploitation.'.You have a tan, you feel gorgeous, you're treated like royalty - and everything is available and easy."I don't know why, maybe because I'm a single woman and I went through the loss alone, naughty adult schoolboy and I didn't have that husband in bed at night to hold you when you're just bawling your heart out because of this loss.It becomes such a myth that even the men now use.Go to any Jamaican beach and you'll find handsome 'rent-a-dreads who get by servicing Western women - lots from Britain.Charities such as Amnesty and Unicef have no official policy on female sex tourism, preferring to focus on protecting trafficked women and children."Sex for money is illegal James said.
But then he got a bit fast, so I suggested he move on to some younger women, And he said, 'Me no want the kitten, me want the cat.
Vin, who has a live-in girlfriend and was a former philosophy major, believes that what he is doing is not prostitution.
It is a nasty twist that the countries where this sort of tourism is most rife are ex-slave colonies.